Our diaspora has challenged my identity and sometimes I struggle to bridge the gap between Eastern and Western ideals. Yet, we have maintained our traditions through cultural practices and staying connected with our community.

As a Third Culture Child, bridging the gap between Eastern and Western ideals has been a journey of personal growth and resilience. My story begins as a refugee from the Vietnam War, arriving in America in 1978 at just two years old, separated from my parents. In 1980, we reunited and settled in Australia. With Chinese and Vietnamese heritage, I navigated life in a multicultural society, fluent in Cantonese, Mandarin, conversational Vietnamese, and Teo Chew.

Growing up in 1980s Australia, the migration landscape was still evolving, with us being pioneers for future migrants. Despite facing racism, my experiences laid the groundwork for our thriving community. One of my proudest achievements was founding one of the first tuition colleges over 20 years ago, focusing on teaching English literature to help migrant families navigate the NSW school requirements. This platform empowered our voices and strengthened our community’s presence.

Maintaining our traditions and staying connected with our roots have been essential. My grandfather was instrumental in preserving our heritage, from founding a significant temple in Bonnyrigg, Sydney, to erecting a marble statue of Confucius in Saigon, now Ho Chi Minh City, in 1974. These cultural landmarks remind us of our history and the journey we’ve undertaken.

As a mother of four, I’ve ensured my children benefit from our multicultural society without losing their connection to their heritage. Reflecting on my journey from a war refugee to an educational pioneer, I’ve learned the importance of resilience and cultural preservation. While the migrant community now has more support, continuous efforts are needed to help new arrivals integrate and feel at home.

Despite the hardships and losses of the war, my family remains eternally grateful to Australia for offering us a new home. Our journey has been marked by gratitude, resilience, and the ongoing effort to support and uplift our community.